In the gym, I constantly see people, time and time again sacrificing form to try and lift as much weight as possible. They don’t want to take the time to look up proper technique or take the time to warm up properly. Instead, they want to just do workouts to look good by lifting as much as possible, ultimately making themselves look like fools.
When working out, especially when you are just starting, it is important to learn how to listen to your body. Yes, of course you want to push yourself, but never sacrifice proper technique. That is how you get hurt and look stupid. You may not be able to do certain exercises right off the bat and that is ok. If you are not sure how to do something, look for a how to video, take it slow and make sure you can do it right. Sometimes it is a matter of pushing through the pain, and sometimes it is a matter of taking a step back and focusing on some more basic exercises to work back up to it. This is where listening to your body comes in. If there is an exercise you struggle with, simply look for a how to video to build up to that exercise. Take muscle ups for instance, this is where you do a pull up, but you pull yourself up and over the bar into a chest dip. There are a lot of videos out there that talk about proper technique and steps to slowly build up to being able to do a full muscle up.
Moral of the story is don’t look stupid, trying to look cool. Always do your research and make sure you never sacrifice proper technique to add more weight.